Philosophy since ancient times has been trying to answer the question of what is important in a person. At different times, there were different theories about the role of man in the world, about his purpose and the highest goal of existence. However, none of them is an axiom, and for each individual the answer to the question will sound differently.
What is the most important thing in a person's life?
This question lies in the field of individual philosophy. There are no global goals of human life in the world that would suit every person and would not change in the course of life. The difficulty is that each person, depending on upbringing, environment and other factors, forms his own system of values. It is important for someone to have a family, for someone to have a job, for someone to have a hearty dinner.
With age, these values can transform and change. And what seemed to be the most important for you in life at school or student age is already becoming less relevant in adult life. If in the period of youthful maximalism we were ready to fight for our rightness and did not perceive criticism addressed to us, then as we grow up we understand that philanthropy and loyalty to others come to the fore.
Thus, each person must answer the question for himself. For this we have been given the ability to think.
Thinking about it What qualities do you value most in people?, you will understand whether your environment and you yourself meet the requirements, what you need to do to ensure that your expectations from life coincide with reality.
Variety of values
It is difficult to unequivocally answer the question of what is most important for a person. Each individual has his own view on this issue. This is due to the fact that we exist in a large global world.
For all mankind in the global sense, there are such important values as:
- Thrift;
- Charity;
- Peacefulness.
These qualities allow us to save the planet and the environment for future generations. However, if we look at peoples more closely, it becomes clear that the division into smaller nations and races makes us different from each other in aspirations and values.
Some went through the process of evolution, fighting for new lands, through conquests and numerous military campaigns, not imagining a different life. And for them the most important qualities in a tribesman were:
- Courage;
- Courage;
- Strength;
- Aggression.
And others historically led a peaceful lifestyle and in this case were valued:
- Kindness;
- Mutual assistance.
This is largely due to historical events that took place with certain peoples. So the Slavs were never militant, only the best qualities were always present in their upbringing. However, the historical planting of someone else's will and the desire of the people to free themselves from oppression did their job and such features appeared in the character of the peace-loving population, such as:
- defiance;
- Justice;
- Patriotism.
The main qualities of a person
In addition to physiological differences, a person as a rational being is distinguished by a number of qualities that are unique to him:
- Politeness and sociability allow a person to exist in society and at the same time feel comfortable;
- Kind attitude towards people and the world around is respected by other people;
- Honesty and decency most valued in a person. Only people with such qualities are pleasant to deal with. They, as a rule, develop warm and friendly relations in teams, and also create strong families;
- Modesty makes a reasonable person even more respected;
- Courage gives him the opportunity not to stand still and constantly improve;
- Humanity allows you to be loyal to the diversity of the surrounding world and accept it as it is.
These qualities allow a modern person to live with dignity in a civilized society, develop, grow up the career ladder, deserve authority among others, be calm and confident in himself and his actions.
Ability to think
The nature of man is such that he does not have great strength, great speed or any natural tools for protection, however, the most complex interweaving of nerve endings and various fibers can be considered the greatest gift of nature - this is our brain. He is capable of:
- to learning;
- To thinking;
- Thanks to him, we are able to feel various emotions;
- Experience a variety of feelings for others.
Thanks to mental activity, a person is able to:
- Conquer the environment;
- Protect yourself from the enemy;
- Create for yourself more favorable conditions for life;
- Assess your behavior and much more.
The gift of nature must be developed. Scientists have proven that we only use 20 percent of our brains. This means that we still have a lot of potential.
What is the main difference between animals and humans?
Visually, a person differs from animals in many ways:
- He walks upright, which frees his hands for work;
- It has virtually no fur. Although few hair follicles have been preserved, the hair is much thinner and smaller than that of the animal;
- Developed brain;
- Movable palms;
- The specific structure of language that allows us to speak.
However, the main difference between us is presence of mind. It allows people to:
- Change the environment, not adapt to it;
- Create cultural values;
- Live in society and be guided in the process of life not only by instincts, but also by social norms;
- Perform many different actions, unlike animals, whose habits are limited by their species;
- Lead a purposeful lifestyle;
- Feel emotion and compassion for others.
Philosophy, psychology, religion have been studying the place and role of man in the world since ancient times. Until now, no other beings are known who in this spectrum could experience a feeling of love, respect, or form and defend their point of view.
None of the studies of the human structure has called it suitable for performing a certain type of activity and existence in certain conditions. A person is universal, he never rests on his laurels and always strives for more.
Thus, trying to answer and find out what is important in a person, we understand that this is purely individual for each. Ideas about important qualities are developed in the process of life and depend on many of its factors.
One thing is important - having honestly answered this question, think about whether you yourself correspond to your ideas about the ideal.
Video about the main qualities of people
In this video, Dmitry Moskovtsev will tell you what qualities are most valued in a person, how to use your mind correctly:
Hello! What are the two most important qualities in a person? What qualities will help all areas of life? Today we will talk about it, friends.
A small preface. December has become a month of interesting articles about productivity, motivation and other such matters. Hm, I like it! Sometimes, it is interesting for me to write about such topics, because. I try to develop not only the body, becoming just a piece of meat, but also the intellect, spirit, heart.
All these areas are very important, and only with the harmonious development of all these areas, I believe, you can achieve maximum results in any business.
Wait for a very cool article on December 31 in the morning, while you cut salads, you can really cheer yourself up. I promise you this article will blow your mind. And now, to the topic of the article.
On the eve of the New Year, a wonderful good holiday of hopes and bold dreams, magic happens not only under the Christmas tree of almost every house, but also through all information channels (newspapers, TV, billboards, radio, television and, of course, ).
There are a lot of advertisements for all sorts of TRAININGS ABOUT SUCCESS! At best, Brian Tracy, Kiyosaki, or someone else who has somehow been seen in business. And at worst, all sorts of completely unknown names that talk about how to become successful, without mentioning that they themselves are successful (and even that is not a fact) only because they earn by talking about how to become successful.
After listening to such bright and inspiring things, people hang pictures of houses by the sea, sports on their walls. cars, and begin to stubbornly masturbate to visualize their unattainable dreams, NOT DOING anything else.
I will not procrastinate this topic today, because. already talked about this in the article: .
Today I want to talk about the two most important, in my opinion, qualities in a person, and they just directly affect our interaction with the outside world.
What can you give me?
Tell. What interests you when you come to the store to buy groceries?
YOU ARE INTERESTED IN PRODUCTS! This is logical. Those. what products YOU NEED you can buy in this particular store.
There is an opinion that the world wants to give you something, and you only have to hear it. Someone is sure that the world wants to take something from you, and you must resist it with all your might. Both of these groups of people are deeply mistaken because THE WORLD DOESN'T SPIT ON YOU AND YOUR DREAMS!
The World (the Universe, if you will) views you FROM THE POINT OF VIEW OF ITS BENEFITS! Those. what can you give him!
THE WORLD DOESN'T CARRY ABOUT WHAT YOU DREAM ABOUT!!! The world is interested in WHAT YOU CAN GIVE IT because we live in a material world, a world where there is a LIMITED amount of resources!
THE WORLD WILL NOT GIVE YOU ANYTHING if you don't give it something in return. For the same reasons, he will not take anything from you (unless you have taken something from someone). This is because the laws of conservation (balance) of energy and other resources operate in the world.
Do you want to work and develop? Good! Then you will not have the resources to exist. Don't want to play sports? OK. Here's a loose, flabby body.
You can live with minimal wastage of energy and resources how more than 90% of the world's population lives. Only then be prepared that your income and your efficiency of interaction with the outside world will be VERY LOW (work, home, work, home, drunken frenzy on vacation a couple of times a year, booze on weekends with friends, etc.).
On the other hand, you can do things differently. You can DEVELOP, experiment, help someone in different things, create your own works, write books, etc. Then your efficiency of interaction with the outside world will increase, and the size of the exchange of resources will become larger (YOU GIVE MORE, THEN YOU WILL GET MORE).
For example, instead of going to a club with friends on the weekend, you will study a new program on a computer or write a small chapter for your future book, or maybe you will just fix a so annoying faucet in the bathroom that is constantly leaking or go to your grandmother to dig potatoes.
It is not necessary that you receive this increase in exactly the area that you are counting on, because. equilibrium can be stabilized in different directions.
Most likely, it will not be instantaneous, but over time you will catch yourself thinking that it is very good that you then did just that (decided to GIVE your time, effort, money for something). Because after studying the program, you got a promotion at your job (at the right time you were the only one who knew how to use it), and when you went to your grandmother for potatoes, you met your future wife there when she came with her girlfriends to swim in the river near your garden.
You will definitely receive a reward for your work, because. the system is balanced in BOTH SIDES!
- GIVE SOMETHING = GET SOMETHING;
- TAKEN SOMETHING = TAKEN SOMETHING FROM YOU;
And if you didn’t give or take anything, then nothing was taken from you either, but don’t expect anything either.
The universe and the world don't care who you think you are or how you think of yourself. SHE DOESN'T EVEN FEEL ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS! The most important thing is ACTION!
Another thing is that YOUR THOUGHTS SHARE YOU on the right course. In the end, YOU NEED TO PRESENT THE PURPOSE AND ACT! One without the other is ineffective, although actions without visualization work better than visualization without actions.
The universe is important question: "What can you give me?". WHAT CAN YOU GIVE HER! Think!
That is why it is very important to LEARN TO CREATE SOMETHING! The more useful and unique what you have created, the more you will get! If you create something, then you give yourself the opportunity to get something (income, a beautiful girl, happiness, etc.)!!!
Why is that? BECAUSE YOU ARE USEFUL! You can give something! From you there is a benefit to the world, so you can count on a reward! You can not only process food from one form to another, being in complete suspended animation and alienation from your life. YOU GIVE AND CREATE!
THE ABILITY TO CREATE SOMETHING is the ability to GIVE TO THIS WORLD! Even if you can fix cabinets, you can create (create a working state). If you know how to joke well, then you know how to create a good mood, etc. A good civil engineer knows how to create quality buildings, bridges, etc.
Important point! The more valuable your skill, the more you get in return! Obviously, the ability to create new machine designs is more valuable than the ability to knit brooms from birch branches.
That is why the one who SENT THEIR RESOURCES to acquire skills to create new machines and mechanisms will receive more than the seller of brooms. You spent more and got more in return.
People often value happiness and success in terms of money alone. But this is a HUGE mistake. Most of the things in our world are not material!!!
You can buy a whore in a brothel or hire a girl in a club to get SEX, but you can't buy LOVE. You can buy PEOPLE with money, but not FRIENDS. POSITION, but not RESPECT! MEDICINES, NOT HEALTH! BED, but not SLEEP!
Many are still convinced that WEALTH = HAPPINESS! This is not true. Money is just one of the resources of our world. Money works only when there was a proportionality of investments (forces, time, brain and physical activity, etc.). That is why those who win large sums in the lottery “drain” this money very quickly, because. the proportionality of the invested and received resources (I bought a ticket and erased the coating, but received a lot of money) is NOT OBSERVED!
If you give something, you will definitely receive something! It's not always money (yes, it can be money).
I had an interesting case. Exactly one year ago, I CREATED a free video course about . At that moment, I was blogging, but I did not have a girlfriend. Yes, there were girls, but they were not the same. So for fun.
Seeing this video course, my girlfriend (with whom we are now together and will get married in the future) fell in love with me. And I didn’t even know about it, but the PROCESS WAS LAUNCHED! I created something, and the Universe thanked me for it, because. I was USEFUL for people who wanted to learn how to ride but didn't know how or what to do.
So we got to the first MOST IMPORTANT quality of a person who wants to effectively interact with the outside world, this is: ENTERPRISE!!!
Entrepreneurship, friends, is very important in a world where you need to find WAYS OF EFFECTIVE INTERACTION WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD!
In the past, our ancestors could either try to manually take down a large animal to eat, or kill it with a trap (pit with stakes) or weapons!
MUCH MORE EFFICIENT could be hunted with weapons or with the help of traps. It is obvious. Because you can’t kill a big beast by hand (you won’t bring a lot of food home).
Resources have not changed much, we still need food (cars, iPhones and everything else is not vital), but the WAYS OF EXTRACTION OF RESOURCES HAVE CHANGED HUGELY! We no longer have to run after the beast with a spear.
We need to learn how to TAKE ACTION for our development in order to interact MORE EFFECTIVELY with the outside world.
The more valuable your skill, the more you get! The better you do it, the more you get! To understand how to learn how to extract more resources, you need to learn how to TAKE ANY action for this.
You don't have to see the whole path. Just enough to get started.
You will always be new in some area.(be it construction, management, promotion and creation of websites, a gym, etc.). But you must learn to GIVE YOUR strength, time, money for YOUR DEVELOPMENT FOR YEARS, because in this way you will be able to give the Universe very valuable resources.
From the very beginning it is very difficult for you to do this, because all the people around you will try to LEAVE YOU AT YOUR LEVEL. You will experience ridicule , aggression, etc. This is a great excuse to give up and do nothing, but if you want to achieve something, then you must MOVE FURTHER no matter what! Must TAKE certain actions to develop and become a more valuable product in the resource market!
Conclusion: Need to develop ENTERPRISE! You need to DO, not just dream!
By the way! I wrote a cool article on how to withstand any competition: .
Second in order, but not least, quality
This will be very difficult. When you first start doing something, doing something, creating, you will face criticism, ridicule, obstacles, bad moods and attitudes. people do not like to understand that the problem is only in themselves.
You have to learn to ABSTRACT and see your ultimate goal, and then STRONGLY follow it.
Hence follows The second MOST IMPORTANT quality of a person is PERSPECTIVE!
“Is there anything in the world that cannot be achieved through hard work?”(Heesung Nam. “Lunar Sculptor Lee Hyun”)
Many people lack this very quality to achieve outstanding results.
It is very difficult! It is DIFFICULT when no one around you believes in you and assures that you will not succeed. “Your bone is wide, you can’t argue against genetics, it’s just such a constitution,” the FAT “friends” say to a woman who wants to lose weight.
"What business? The situation is not stable, they can kill you, you will get into debt, ”they say, to a man who wants to open a business, his colleagues are locksmiths at the plant.
But the more you BEND YOUR LINE, the more you TAKE and TRY, the BETTER YOU WILL DO IT!
A little later, you will realize that you are already doing with ease what previously seemed very difficult, because you have adapted! You TRY, GIVE, CREATE, and work HARD to get what you want! You have spent a lot of effort, money, time to achieve this and in time you will understand how YOUR LIFE BECOMES BETTER!
You are surrounded by more beautiful girls, or you met the girl you always wanted to be with. You can afford more because unexpectedly, new opportunities have opened up for you (at work, in business or creativity). You have become healthier, because. stubbornly tried to bring their body back to normal, etc.
YOU SHOULD RECEIVE A REWARD IF YOU GIVE SOMETHING!
How do you think, how did the primitive man feel, who was the first to pick up a stick to dig the ground? Of course, they looked at him like he was an idiot! After all, "this is not accepted."
But he stubbornly continued and everyone began to understand that this way it was possible to cultivate the land more efficiently. He CREATED something and STRONGLY followed his beliefs, so the Universe thanked him (perhaps with a better female, perhaps with respect in the team, perhaps with more food, etc.).
Conclusion: You need to train your perseverance! This will allow you to act to the end and not turn off the intended path.
conclusions
ENTERPRISE helps you CHOOSE and CORRECT your course, and PERSISTENCE helps you stay on course. These two qualities are MOST IMPORTANT for achieving your goals.
ENTERPRISE without perseverance is procrastination, i.e. when you give up halfway through or at the very beginning. I spoke about this .
And PERSISTENCE without enterprise is “stubbornness”. You need to be able to change course depending on external conditions, because:
“What difference does it make how fast you move if the ladder is against the wrong wall?”
By developing these two qualities, one can achieve colossal results in any undertaking, and then no "secrets" of Tibetan monks and trainings about "colossal" success will be needed.
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Author Stranger~*~ asked a question in Other relationships
What is the most important thing for you in a person? and got the best answer
Answer from Yergey Ivanov[guru]
Personally, I think that the most important thing is that a person respects and appreciates you. Many say that the main thing in life is love, but they do not always understand that love cannot exist without these qualities. Of course, more honesty. Without it, no relationship, be it friendly or more serious. Friendship. If a person knows how to make friends, then this already characterizes him as a good person. Friendship is not only conversations, and most importantly, you need to be able to help your neighbor and just a stranger in a difficult situation. Loyalty and devotion. I think that is also one of the main qualities. Without them, neither friendship nor love can exist. Understanding. This should be present in any relationship, but unfortunately this is not always possible. Although, if you try hard and want to, you can do everything and get it in this difficult, but at the same time very interesting life. Try to understand the other person in any situation, even if he offended you and you don’t want to do this at all. PATIENCE. In capital letters, I emphasize the importance of this quality. After all, without patience, a normal family life is not possible. If you are more patient with each other, then your friendship or family life will last much longer. I wish everyone to appreciate these qualities in people and in themselves.)
Answer from ***Daria***[guru]
kindness
Answer from PavliK[guru]
kindness faithfulness decency honesty
Answer from Alina[guru]
Sense of humor.
Answer from Vasily Dikov[guru]
spiritual nobility
Answer from YOOL[guru]
Honesty, kindness, fidelity, a sense of humor, an ironic mindset are required, and if we talk about the opposite sex, then appearance, of course!)
Answer from Lana Fox[guru]
kindness, honesty
Answer from FRIEND[guru]
Healthy kidneys and liver... Hello!!!
Answer from ~ ° °MaeRlyn~ ° °[guru]
Sincerity!
So that he does not try to seem different, does not compose tales and stories ... to be the way he really is ...
Answer from Vyacheslav Kochetov[guru]
Yes, there is no main or under the main there are people each with their own + or - 🙂
Answer from Vikusha[guru]
Spirituality, the ability to listen and understand others, honesty, decency, the ability to admit and correct one's mistakes.
Answer from delicate flower[guru]
Care, respect, soul, responsibility, independence, the ability to live one's own mind and solve one's problems
Answer from Yatiana Tobbi[guru]
For me, the most important thing in a person is reliability.
Answer from Artem Baryshev[newbie]
sincerity
Answer from 3 answers[guru]
The most important thing in a person is sincerity and simplicity. And external beauty is not as important as internal beauty. A person is beautiful because kindness lives in him,
She is like paint that will delight any canvas.
A person is pure - from the fact that his main trump card is not pomposity and variegation, but a heart that gives everyone joy, trembling with the ease of a moth
And above all - the heart - in which mercy, affection, integrity and warmth live.
It doesn’t matter what skin color, clothing, whether the heart is filled with self-confident denial or faith in Christ, the main thing is when the eyes burn and the soul responds to someone else’s misfortune.
It doesn't matter - your mansion or a hut knocked together from logs - if there is awe in your chest, love, complicity - then your life is not empty.
Is happiness not to revel in life to the last sip? Do not be afraid to love and even be humiliated by the love of the blade,
Isn't happiness in loving every grain of sand? Isn't happiness in laying down your swords and finding the strength to embrace your enemy,
And give him food and goodness, drinking with him from his own cup of wine.
If words of support in a moment of despair were let go from the mouth, if the heart burns, blazes brighter than a fire, if you love every centimeter of the Motherland - from lakes to every petal blooming in spring
It means that your life is righteous and incredibly full.
And you flutter, filled with joy, in ecstasy of how light it is, you drink in admiration from the ocean of being, which gives water to every stream.
And if you are kind, then the universal thread leads you, its invisible, gentle hand lies on your shoulders in the cosmic twilight,
And she will protect you forever.
Above all the shrines for me is a dream.
The most careless thing is spiritual nakedness - the ability to empathize and live, observing a miracle in the moment of every day.
The most important thing in a person is his eyes.
How to decide what jewel to decorate your finger,
You would better think about what to give to your neighbor, believing in the gratuitousness of hopes. It would be better if you resurrected in your heart and yourself gave a benefactor to everyone, not relying on the help of heaven.
Above all else in a person is virtue, it is more significant than a graceful diva's gesture, It is more beautiful than a coquettish look, it is more majestic than Everst.
Above all in a person is the ability to understand, empathize, listen, receive, and give, not sparing spiritual means.
Of all the places I have visited, the most beautiful places
The most reverent were the walks through the human soul.
The most beautiful of all festivities and celebrations is a good heart - my interest in it will not fade.
And if something in this world still has weight,
Those are the eyes that burn for the whole neighborhood. What could be more important than a loving heart, which is probably
